like fuck man if you wanna ship an abusive relationship go the fuck for it
but do us both a favor and please examine the problematic and abusive elements in your ship?? don’t normalize it??? dont treat it as an idealized romance????
ship to your heart’s content but pls pls pls see why people think of it as abusive ok it might save your life later on
i am an angry internet ladyperson shaking their cane at the masses but i care about you, internet stranger, and i want you to be in happy healthy fulfilling relationships of your choosing
you are allowed to ship whatever the fuck you want just don’t lie to yourself. go in with your eyes open.
i worry about you, all of you.